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Learn How you can Approach Women with confidence. Meet women in any setting and any situation

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Thursday, January 19, 2006

how to flirt with girl

How To Flirt with Girl
On knowing how to flirt with a girl successfully, may in fact be the start of something wonderful, or in the very least, create a night of fun-filled passion with a girl you chose to flirt with. So Here I am going to present you flirting tips for you guys.

Lets start with some Basics. I hope You don't forget normal Cleanliness factors :p
Making a great first impression is highly important when you choose to flirt with a girl. Girls are very intrigued by scent and cleanliness.

Flirting is an attitude: A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic and positive, it works!

Smile: It is contagious. It will make you so much more approachable. A smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You will be a people magnet. Try it!

Underhanded Compliment: A underhanded compliment is like giving a compliment and then taking it away from her. Everyone and his dog might be giving compliments to the girl you are trying to flirt with. What we are going to do is.. Give her a compliment and then Take it away. Seduction Guru's Call this "Giving a Neg". Somethings like If she has nice hair, you say "nice nails, Acrylic???" LoL... well of course you just can't use this very line... You need to learn how to give these kind of lines on the spot and be playful

Some guys use some sort of gimmicks like Palm Reading, Magic to flirt with girls. Well these are good resources and methods to get girl into you. Girls like palmisty, astrology stuff. You can hook them easy.

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Friday, January 13, 2006

Tip on Flirting : flirting secrets that you need to know

Tip on Flirting with women
I am going to give out something unexpected, a flirting secret you might say.

Ok Lmme ask you a ques.
What happens when a guy is trying to flirt with a woman.
9 out of 10 cases He'll be nervous as hell ie. he will naturally tend to talk faster, more abruptly, fidget & move about more, etc when he's with her.
Right...
Of course. This is the effect of women on Men. unless you are One hot star I don't think women will go weak in their knees in front of you.

So What to do about this.
2 things you can immediately Do.
1. Do the unexpected: Do the unpredictable that catches their attention. You do not need to act stupid. well, Lets say you are talking to her and then you notice something funny about her. You just say it out. if you find a fault in her, tell her about it. Hot women are not expecting someone to find out their fault. One thing to remember Do not ACT LIKE AN ASS.

What color hair does she have? If it's blonde, learn some blonde jokes... if it's brunette, learn some brunette jokes.
Is she tall? Bust on her height.
Is she short? Bust on her vertically challenged-ness.

2. Flirting Body Language : It has nothing to do with Stand tall, chin up, chest out body language, flirting has a different feel, a different aura about it.
lemme put it in different way. Imagine you are with your old freind(girl). You two can talk on anything. pull each other legs, make fun of each other, Be totally and utterly comfortable with each other.
Now if you can pull this off in front of girl you are flirting with you might end up with her.

most guys aren't relax when they are talking to a girl, thats where the most problems lies. Even if you don't use bodylanguage and other techniques, you can still get the girl if you just act confident and secure about yourself.

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Dont Let your physical flaw hold you back

Too many guys are keeping themselves from having fun with women. They think they have an appearance that turns women off. They can't be further from the truth. For them, it's time to turn the tables around.

I'm about 5'10 but I don't have an athletic body at all. Not exactly what women would say they prefer.

But, what a woman says she prefers doesn't really mean what she really wants. It’s like most women would say, they want some guy that would treat them like a princess and do all these nice things for them, but when a guy like that shows up and does everything for her, she's like:

"Ewww, not another one! Run!"

Trying to meet up with women’s expectation is a way to reduce attraction, because you're buying into her frame of her having all the power.

Instead, switch the frame and make her chase you. Now it’s YOU having the power! If you believe that women like you, and act as if, it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. They start believing it too!

By the way, you could also do little things to improve your looks. For example, if you are small you could get some boots, adding 2 inches. And growing your hair out by one inch and spike it. It would add up to 3 inches.

Learn How you can Do these kind of turn arounds in life
from Derek Vitalio

Sunday, January 08, 2006

free female seduction tip

There’s a number of ways to get yourself into the right state. And a number of exercises that work well for different types of people. Try these ones on for size – and make a fool of yourself to prove that’s a good way to be too.

Knockin’ it up a Notch

Ok guys, you’ve GOT the basics down now. You are ready.

Time for some more advanced material.

Let’s say you’re still having nerves with your approach. Let’s take a look at a simple exercise to add to your relaxation exercise, which will help push you into playfulness.

The Playful Positive Placer

1. Relax, take a deep breath, and close your eyes.

2. Do your relaxation exercise.

3. Allow yourself to think all the useless negative thoughts that often pop up and sabotage you. Things like “Am I wearing the right clothes? Will she like me? When should I touch her?” etc.

4. Type the words out in your mind. Create a box around them. Put all your negative feelings inside that box. Go wild here.

5. Start shrinking the box as you push it further and further into the distance, until it is just a speck.

6. Erase it. All that should be left is a calm happy state.

7. Now, think all the RIGHT thoughts and the RIGHT questions. “How much fun can I have tonight? What will I find intriguing about the women I’m with? What interesting things might happen?”

8. Type the words out in your mind. Expand them until there is no blank space left, just boundless words and the positive feelings they engender.

9. Dissolve the words into your blank state, allowing that positivity and playfulness to soak into your very being.

10. Count from one to five, saying to yourself “I’m going to count from one to five, and when I finish I will feel much better than I ever have before. 1… 2… 3… 4… 5.”

11. Open your eyes.

Doesn’t that feel good? Try to do this exercise every time you go out to meet women. Once you’ve gotten yourself skilled at it, establish a trigger just like with your relaxation exercise. You won’t have to do the whole exercise each time once that trigger is anchored – and you’ll be able to call on it at the drop of a hat.

That’s huge because, no matter how smooth you are, there’s going to be moments you get stuck, or stumped, or knocked out of your game for whatever reason. If you have an established playful trigger, instead of losing your cool, you’ll be the chill super-stud by stopping, triggering, and handling a difficult situation magnificently.

More techniques at www.seductionscience.com


The Crazy Playful Walk-up Exercise

1. Pick out a woman.

2. Say sincerely and playfully “Hi, maybe you can help me… I’m lost… can you tell me how to get to (name the city you’re in).

3. This should make her laugh or cause confusion for a moment. WHATEVER she does, stay sincere and playful. YOU decide how to take the conversation next based on HER reactions.

4. If you feel an awkwardness, you can always bail with “Well, it was nice meeting you.” and walk away.

Do this to at least 100 women in the next month.

What? Why?

Silly, right? Stupid, right? WHY, again, am I making you do this?

The reasons are twofold: one, if you can do this and stay PLAYFUL and RELAXED, you’re never going to have trouble approaching women ever again. Ever. Really.

Two, you’re going to be surprised how often this stupid silly thing actually WORKS at getting digits and dates. It’s gonna prove to you that it really doesn’t matter what you say, but HOW you say it.

You’re REALLY going to get it now, buddy.

Regards,

Derek Vitalio
http://www.seductionscience.com