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There’s a number of ways to get yourself into the right state. And a number of exercises that work well for different types of people. Try these ones on for size – and make a fool of yourself to prove that’s a good way to be too.

Knockin’ it up a Notch

Ok guys, you’ve GOT the basics down now. You are ready.

Time for some more advanced material.

Let’s say you’re still having nerves with your approach. Let’s take a look at a simple exercise to add to your relaxation exercise, which will help push you into playfulness.

The Playful Positive Placer

1. Relax, take a deep breath, and close your eyes.

2. Do your relaxation exercise.

3. Allow yourself to think all the useless negative thoughts that often pop up and sabotage you. Things like “Am I wearing the right clothes? Will she like me? When should I touch her?” etc.

4. Type the words out in your mind. Create a box around them. Put all your negative feelings inside that box. Go wild here.

5. Start shrinking the box as you push it further and further into the distance, until it is just a speck.

6. Erase it. All that should be left is a calm happy state.

7. Now, think all the RIGHT thoughts and the RIGHT questions. “How much fun can I have tonight? What will I find intriguing about the women I’m with? What interesting things might happen?”

8. Type the words out in your mind. Expand them until there is no blank space left, just boundless words and the positive feelings they engender.

9. Dissolve the words into your blank state, allowing that positivity and playfulness to soak into your very being.

10. Count from one to five, saying to yourself “I’m going to count from one to five, and when I finish I will feel much better than I ever have before. 1… 2… 3… 4… 5.”

11. Open your eyes.

Doesn’t that feel good? Try to do this exercise every time you go out to meet women. Once you’ve gotten yourself skilled at it, establish a trigger just like with your relaxation exercise. You won’t have to do the whole exercise each time once that trigger is anchored – and you’ll be able to call on it at the drop of a hat.

That’s huge because, no matter how smooth you are, there’s going to be moments you get stuck, or stumped, or knocked out of your game for whatever reason. If you have an established playful trigger, instead of losing your cool, you’ll be the chill super-stud by stopping, triggering, and handling a difficult situation magnificently.

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The Crazy Playful Walk-up Exercise

1. Pick out a woman.

2. Say sincerely and playfully “Hi, maybe you can help me… I’m lost… can you tell me how to get to (name the city you’re in).

3. This should make her laugh or cause confusion for a moment. WHATEVER she does, stay sincere and playful. YOU decide how to take the conversation next based on HER reactions.

4. If you feel an awkwardness, you can always bail with “Well, it was nice meeting you.” and walk away.

Do this to at least 100 women in the next month.

What? Why?

Silly, right? Stupid, right? WHY, again, am I making you do this?

The reasons are twofold: one, if you can do this and stay PLAYFUL and RELAXED, you’re never going to have trouble approaching women ever again. Ever. Really.

Two, you’re going to be surprised how often this stupid silly thing actually WORKS at getting digits and dates. It’s gonna prove to you that it really doesn’t matter what you say, but HOW you say it.

You’re REALLY going to get it now, buddy.

Regards,

Derek Vitalio
http://www.seductionscience.com